Do submissives truly enjoy catering to their Masters/Mistress'? Do they enjoy tending to their Dominants' comforts and needs or do they only endure it to allow themselves to get their needs met?
Do Dominants truly enjoy caring for their submissives? Do they enjoy making their pets comfortable or endure caring for them to indulge their conception of power?
The idea, the true fantasy is to find that O/one who works to comfort you and make you smile as much as you work to do the same for them. In essence, an equal power exchange, a relationship that is mutually beneficial in all reallms; emotional, mental, physical, spiritual, and social.
When a submissive loses their smile and feels neglected, serving their Dominant becomes unpleasurable work. When a Dominant loses their smile and feels they have no down time, even play can become a chore. Both hearts must be in it 110% at all times and you need to be true partners--picking up eachothers' slack lovingly when life dictates. We all have off days, but we must communicate honestly at the first sign of tension; discuss, decide and let it pass.
Don't be ungrateful for the one that cares for you. Make sure you showe your appreciation each day and make sure that your heart is in it for all the right reasons. The heart can deceive the mind, so check your heart and make the most of it all.
Precious
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